A little piece from my mind.

  

Sometimes you know when you feel this world is too cruel. There's a time you keep telling yourself, why is everyone doing this to me? What did I do wrong? Do I deserve to get these? Times when you always help your love ones a lot, but in the end they just leave you hanging without any answers. You tried to apologise, but they simply point out your littlest mistake that you'd done. But when you do the same towards them, they manipulate the situation. You'll constantly say to yourself, this is seriously not fair. Why why why? You know that you keep questioning that to yourself don't you? You feel like everyone is not accepting the way you're being. You know what, here's a little something that I can tell so that you'll appreciate yourself better than any other will. So, prepare to read more.

1. Be yourself.

Right, why do I say this? It's because it's worth it to be yourself. Being yourself is the best feeling and the best moments that you'll ever have! Like seriously. If they can't accept for who you are, so what? Be it. Why bother to please? Or maybe beg? Or just maybe seeking for forgiveness when what you did is not really a big matter? Being someone else might make people like you, but it's the same like giving yourself a bullshit for you're not appreciating yourself. If you keep pleasing, people will slowly won't bother to care for your feelings. They'll step on you for you not having your own principles. I know you're afraid that they'll leave you alone. But why do you have to be afraid? You won't die if you lose maybe one or two or maybe millions of your friends rather than you please them and you'll keep hurting yourself. In the end, you won't get anything but pain in yourself for pleasing. It's not wrong to lose your insincere friends, what matters is losing your own pride. Why sacrifice yourself to someone who don't even bother to care for you back? Don't you think it's a waste? And you know, to be with them you have to roll their way. Why? Is it a compulsory to be someone else when you wanted to be friends with them? There's no rules in this world saying that you have to be a fake to be with someone you want.

2. Be optimistic, stay positive.

So, why do I say this? Because you need to! Tell yourself positive statements. Don't be such a pessimist. Saying stuffs as if it's the end of the world when everyone's leaving you. Here are one of those statements that you must tell yourself so that your mind will keep telling and you'll keep rolling.

1. "I won't die if they leave me. I still have God, and my family. I got nothing to lose."
2. "Forever alone? Nope. I know someone out there will always come to me for who I am being."
3. "I'm gorgeous that's why they can't cope with me." (Okay, I never tried this. HAHAHAHHAHAHAH)
4. "God is saving me some people who'll appreciate me better for who I am."
5. "I'm not alone. I'm still breathing so there's no good reasons for me to be over emo."
6. "I love my family and myself more than anything!"
7. "I know myself better than anyone else."
8. "I don't need a million fake faces to be love or to be appreciate."

And many more. Just be optimistic! It'll help you reduce a little stress of you. So, shall we continue?

       

3. Why bother?

It's simple. Why bother? Why do you have to bother about losing people who don't appreciate you?

Let it go. If they really care, they wouldn't let you face your problems alone. When you're alone, you get to learn a lot of things and be more mature than before. When you manage to beat it up, they will start to realise that what they're doing aren't right. For sure they'll say sorry, but if their asses are to ego to even apologise, let them be. Let God manage that. You know that what goes around comes around, right? So, don't worry too much! You got nothing to lose.

 

 4. Smile a lot!
Smiling helps reduce your stressful matters. And a little fact for you to know, smiling helps reduce wrinkles! Ahaa, I'm not joking at all. Did you know that, smiling lifts the muscles in the face and slows down the rate at which we age? Yeap, smiling make you look young. So keep smiling and that shows you appreciate yourself more than anyone else. When you did this, them who don't appreciate you might realise a little. They'll wonder a lot. Why can you still smile after what they had done towards you? Slowly, you'll make them realise what they did were wrong.

5. Keep spreading love.
Keep spreading love? Why?
Here's why.
Never hate them who'd hurt you. Never despise. Act normal and you'll be fine. Don't keep grudges. If you do, you'll face bigger problems. Just let them be and smile. If they ignore you then be it. Just stay optimise, positive and keep making new friends and never forget your family. There's more out there who appreciates you better. Even so they ignore, back stab you and etc just let them be! You don't have the rights to do the same thing back towards them. If you did, then it won't make any difference at all between you and them. Like I said, let God settle that for you. What you have to do is, keep appreciating yourself more, keep loving your family more, and keep the good loving friendship towards them who realise, care, and appreciate for who you are. So, keep spreading love!

          

Alright, these are the five tips that I can share. I know some of you out there had a very depressing life matters. But then again, think of the other positive reasons about why must you keep moving forward. You have God to keep reminding you about how He cares so much about you. You have your family as your official supporters! So, it shows that you seriously don't have good reasons to be such a pessimist! 
Last but not least, have a positive way of thinking. You never know, miracles can happen anywhere, anytime.


   


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